Now I’ve never described myself as a feminist (although maybe I am) and have nothing against men… BUT I’ve just read a post on elitedaily.com that seems to blame women for the lack of successful relationships. Us girls don’t want the nice guys because they’re boring; we want the bad boys who keep it interesting.
Bollocks.
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Anne Boleyn she kept a tin,
Which all her hopes and dreams were in,
She plans to run away with him, forever (never to be seen again)
Leaves a note and starts to choke,
Can feel the lump that’s in her throat,
It’s raining and she leaves her coat in silence…
These lyrics are from the McFly song Transylvania. I’ve always loved this song (not because of these lyrics), but when I was at Wembley Arena yesterday, it struck me as odd that Anne Boleyn is mentioned at all. Most bands pick more significant characters to mention in their song, especially portrayed in an almost romantic light.
Anne Boleyn died 467 years ago today, executed in London after being found guilty of the charges laid against her. Yet she still remains a popular figure, popping up in songs, plays and TV programmes.
What is it about her? I featured in a documentary about Anne Boleyn last year, along with several other girls who felt a strong sense of admiration for this young woman. Strange perhaps that we admire a woman who was labelled an adulteress, a witch, a whore and countless other things.
So what then?
It’s still a man’s world out there and women still struggle for power as men continue to dominate. Anne rose from almost nothing to become queen of England, one of the most influential people at the Royal Court. Her position benefited her family and friends, enhancing their wealth and status at court.
She was also a significant player in England’s break with Rome and movement towards a Church of England and Protestantism. She shaped the future of our country and gave birth to one of the strongest rulers in British history.
So what happened?
Anne was a woman. We’re all headstrong, passionate and determined. The world’s changed a lot, but men still seem to resent powerful women. I know that men often find me a bit too much to take, especially when I’m constantly busy, doing this and that, with no time for them. Yet, I still expect to get my own way and want them to be around when I want them.
Maybe Anne is still present in modern day because she is the epitome of what women want to be-beautiful and powerful.
Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with that, and if that means I would have lost my head, almost for just being female, then at least that’s something I don’t have to worry about nowadays!
24 hours in A&E
So ice-skating is slippery? You’d think, after my excursions in Brussels, that I would have realised this, but no – yet again I found this out the hard way several weeks ago.
I didn’t feel well and was hungry, but didn’t want to miss my lesson.
So I enter the ice hot and bothered with a fuzzy brain.
Practise: turn on one leg, backwards arabesque. Repeat. Blunt skates, rough ice.
A fall, a crack, intense pain and embarrassment.
Left wrist swollen, pale, throbbing. Stand up, dizzy, nauseous and skate off the ice followed by a doctor in the group below me. She declares the arm broken. Ice pack, bed.
Two lovely paramedics provide a sling and water and a ride in the ambulance to Kings College Hospital.
Abandon hope, all ye who enter here
Homeless people, hypochondriacs and the lonely gather inside, ignored by all until they’re asked to leave, clutching their possessions, imaginary ailments and life stories close.
I’m bundled inside, my forms lost in the hustle and bustle of A&E, into a waiting room of injured people.
Gunshot and stab victims raid the vending machines, children run riot and nurses take verbal abuse in their stride.
Nobody notices me clutching my skates, swollen arm, pale face until I demand some drugs and sit alone waiting…
…and waiting. Nobody’s moved, people are frustrates and I’m in serious pain. It’s been two hours and I’ve had enough so I ask when I will be seen. Seven people in front of me, two people going in per hour… I’ll never get home!
Journey to the centre of the earth
I act quickly and jump into a taxi in front of the smoking pregnant woman in pursuit of the tube. The driver chats away on his mobile phone and drops me too far from the entrance so I run…
A small girl with a sling is ushered through barriers without a thought and I reach Waterloo… one minute too late.
My luck turns and my train is late so I get on it and get a seat, surrounded by sympathetic people offering me help, love and assistance. Commuters have never been friendlier; I’ve never been so mollycoddled.
Everyone is eager to share their own stories, offering me their number or a lift in case I am stranded in the middle of the night.
A night to remember
At the Royal Surrey the wait is short, yet inpatients steal my X-ray slot and my tears fall as I remember a previous trip for another’s broken arm. Those waiting for relatives comfort me and tell amusing stories to cheer me up.
Around 2am my worst fears are confirmed – one broken wrist, two fractured bones and surgery likely.
There’s nothing for it but to try to get some sleep…
…but that’s a silly idea as my arm has to be half plastered and I have to be swabbed, stabbed and squeezed. The ‘nil by mouth’ sign goes up and at 4am I’m left alone.
Except that the other patients are intent on keeping me awake as one brought in starts to scream and hit out at the nurses who are trying to kill her.
I’ve never felt more alone.
Oh what a beautiful morning
Sleep comes eventually until I’m woken at 6am by the hoover and a nice nurse telling me she’ll sit me up for breakfast… which I’m not allowed because of the possibility of surgery.
Books are brought but I can’t turn the pages so it’s tiring and all I want to do is scream and sleep.
My body is exposed to radiation several more times as I am wheeled around the hospital and a new cast is put on.
Nobody tells me anything and I still don’t know if I’m having surgery.
I’m tired and starving and annoyed that they’ve reduced the amount of morphine in my drip.
Despite my polite frustration I’m still a favourite of the nurses (I’m young and sane), so I do get extra drugs and am promised food once they know more.
At the end of the day
Finally just before visiting hours finish I’m told that surgery won’t be necessary and I can go home.
It’s almost 4pm. I’ve missed three meals and am edgy to say the least.
A wonderful nurse brings me sandwiches, tea and biscuits and I’m so hungry I don’t even mind that it’s fake bread with butter, cheese and tomato which normally I wouldn’t eat.
As I’m discharged and everyone hugs me and waves me goodbye, I have only one thought in my mind:
I’ve definitely got my money’s worth out of the NHS this year!
My Stage is the World 